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7 Myths About VAWA

VAWA, or the Violence Against Women Act, can be a complicated process. It is important to separate the facts from the myths you may come across online. There are so many confusing things online that can sometimes cause you to think it would be impossible for you to be protected and receive the help you need to get out of a dangerous and abusive situation.

Our U.S. immigration firm focuses on VAWA, and we are here to help you debunk some of the false narratives you see online regarding VAWA. Here are the seven most popular myths below. But first, let’s define what is VAWA.

What is VAWA?

VAWA offers protections and allows victims of domestic violence or spousal abuse to “self-petition” to obtain a green card without the cooperation of the U.S. citizen or permanent resident relative who is abusing them.

7 common myths you may find on the internet regarding VAWA


The decision to file for VAWA is difficult and can leave you unsure about what to do, how to feel safe again, and what your future might look like. We are explaining the truth about VAWA by debunking these seven common myths.

1. Only women can qualify for VAWA

This is actually false. VAWA was originally created to end violence against women, including immigrant women. Today, immigrant men and children and parents who are being abused by their relatives can receive protection under VAWA.

Here are the qualifications;

  • Spouses, former spouses (must be divorced and file in less than two years), of abusive U.S. citizens or lawful permanent residents.

  • The children of abusive citizens or lawful permanent residents who file before turning 21 (or 25, if the delay can be linked to the abuse)

  • Parents of U.S. citizens (aged 21 and over)

  • Parent of abused children of U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident.

2. USCIS will contact your abuser

This is not true. Once you have filed your petition for VAWA, you have complete confidentially. It would be unlawful for USCIS to contact your abuser or inform them you have filed a self-petition.

3. Abuse from your abuser must be physical

The main requirement to qualify for VAWA is that the victim must be subjected to battery or extreme cruelty. However, forms of domestic violence may be physical, verbal, or emotional. Depending on the circumstances of the abuse under these categories may amount to extreme cruelty.

4. You must be married to your abuser


This is false. You can qualify for VAWA within two years after your divorce from your abuser. Since VAWA also protects men, women, parents, and children you further do not have to be married to your abuser. You just have to prove extreme cruelty.

5. In order to qualify for VAWA you must have a police report


Yes, a police report is helpful in VAWA cases and can document the abuse that you experienced, and can be used as a requirement for VAWA. However, a police report is not a requirement to apply for VAWA and self-petition.

6. You need photos to prove you were abused

This is not true. As mentioned above, there are different forms of abuse, including physical, verbal, and emotional abuse. If you have been verbally or emotionally abused, it would be hard to prove your abuse in photos. However, you do need to prove extreme cruelty, which an immigration attorney can help you gather your evidence.

7. If my petition is denied, I will get deported


This is a maybe. If you are being absolutely honest and truthful in your petition, you should have nothing to worry about. Your petition could get denied because of a lack of evidence. If you are working with an immigration attorney, they will be able to make sure you submit all the correct documents and provide all the evidence you need to prove your case. However, they are serious consequences for being fraudulent on your VAWA petition.

WATCH THE VIDEO: Correcting VAWA Misconceptions

Read more about VAWA;

How to apply for VAWA

How to Write Your Personal Declaration Letter for VAWA Self-Petition

VAWA for parents

VAWA for children


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